The Book
Myrtle the Turtle Discovers Hug Power
Exploring the transformation of shame through the parent-child connection, Myrtle the Turtle Discovers Hug Power shares the tale of a young turtle who learns the power of hugs to counteract shame.
“Jan DiSanto has very cleverly disguised a wise book for adults in the form of a children’s book. It teaches parents how to help their children not carry around the burden of shame while entertaining the children with a comforting story that can be appreciated on many levels. It is a truly engaging story that both parents and children will gain from reading. The author is a sophisticated, emotionally-focused therapist and it shows. The drawings (by Jan’s daughter!) convey just the right amount of emotion to fit the story. Bravo to them both!”
–Hanna Levenson, PhD, Psychologist
Professor, Wright Institute
“Finally! A children’s book about shame – that universal, powerful, and misunderstood emotion. Brilliantly written and delightfully drawn, Myrtle the Turtle explores the inner emotional world of the child. Jealousy, impatience, and the reactions to shame are gently and humorously explored in this fanciful tale, leading to a happy ending as Myrtle’s shame is healed. Recommended for parents, teachers, therapists, and kids of all ages.”
–Sheila Rubin, LMFT and Bret Lyon, PhD
Co-Creators of the Healing Shame Workshops
“Jan DiSanto has written a lively and clever book for young children, playfully illustrated, about how young Myrtle the Turtle experiences shame, learns to listen to her inner voice, and connects with loved ones. It relays the message that we all experience shame and that healing can take place through connection in loving relationships. Most helpful is the included guide parents can use to dialogue with their child about these experiences. It is an important addition to a child’s library that will enhance learning with every re-reading.”
–Liza J. Ravitz, Ph.D.
Child and Adult Psychologist and Jungian Analyst
“…This is a refreshing and pragmatic book addressing the feelings of shame in children. Ms. DiSanto integrates a wonderful set of illustrations with a text that is clear and easy to use. I highly recommend it as a teaching tool for parents and other adults involved in child rearing…”
—Ian A. Canino, MD
Clinical Professor Emeritus of Child Psychiatry, Columbia University